Has it ever ever happened to you that you give chances to the same set of people to prove to be good friends and in return they keep on doing things to hurt you the possible extent?? I wonder how a person can't be a loyal friend if you are so good to him. You help them in any possible way, forgive them hundreds of times, they can't leave the habit of breaking trust! A friend of mine has rightly described such people as Gnawing rats!(http://myjourneys.wordpress.com/2007/03/19/gnawing-rats/)
I don't mind if they don't let me know what's happening in their life but I do mind if they are letting the world know some wrong things about me.
Anyway its life! And we must learn to choose friends very carefully and I think I'm still in the process of learning that.
Thank God! I still have a bunch of friends who have never proved and will never prove to be wrong choices :-)
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Friday, June 22, 2007
Its a lovely day!
Its friday again. End of week! It was a hectic week for me. After being on bench for a long time, I'm enjoying this "busyness".Though I have my tasks set for the weekend also, I'm a bit relaxed that I can enjoy this nice weather. People like me, who don't like bangalore, do visit bangalore at this time. The weather is at its best. It was drizzling the whole day and there is a nice breeze going on.
Its 7 pm and I'm still in office as we had meeting from 6 to 7. Something strange happened in our meeting today! One colleague started laughing all of a sudden and the laughter was so contagious that we forgot that we have some more people who have dialled in the meeting call :)
It was fun!
Its 7 pm and I'm still in office as we had meeting from 6 to 7. Something strange happened in our meeting today! One colleague started laughing all of a sudden and the laughter was so contagious that we forgot that we have some more people who have dialled in the meeting call :)
It was fun!
Thursday, June 21, 2007
Ever been real angry??
Over the years, I have learnt that silence is the best way to show anger. Just don't talk to the the person you are angry with. It will surely work; but speaking out that you felt bad because of something might not work. I believe complaining for something weekens the relationships. I remember once a friend of mine gifted me a poster "Angry people cause hurt and get hurt". Silence is the best killer as it hurts the most.And to be silent is best when you don't know if you have the right to be angry with the person. This is difficult way of expressing anger, but it works :)I don't know how to apply this when the concerned person is a room-mate or a team-mate. You can't avoid talking to that person in such cases...I have tried hundreds of times to be angry with my rooom-mate. The very next morning I forget :(
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