Trust

Probably all of us use this word often while talking to friends, while writing testimonials, while praising others. But I doubt I really know the meaning! I searched for its meaning on internet and got so many definitions. Probably a too complicated thing! I don’t understand why people make relationships if they don’t trust each other. Oh I again used the word! Here it means – “The sense that things are fine; that nothing can disrupt the bond between you and the other”. The other day my friend’s boy-friend who is a very loving and caring guy got angry with her because he saw her talking to some guy in her office campus. I thought Love is above all these things! I concluded where there is love; there is a fear of losing it. Even Lords are not exception to this. Lord Rama doubted Sita after her release from Ravana’s capture. Today two of my friends doubted me to have told their secrets to people. Although the thing was told quite casually and lightly, yet it touched my heart. I felt that they should not have told me anything if they don't trust me. Here trust means – “Sharing your inner feelings and thoughts with others with the belief that they will not spread them indiscriminately”. But before I could say anything to them I introspected –“Haven’t I doubted people who I love the most at times?” The answer was yes – with so many incidents coming to my mind. Probably its human nature to be doubtful! Is there anything called blind trust? I’m not sure!